The world we live in now is vastly different from the times we enjoyed as kids. It’s highly digitalized, where even a one-year-old can easily access an iPhone without assistance. Kids nowadays are more addicted to playing games on any device they can get their hands on, whether iPods, iPhones, iPads, or numerous other devices. The constant nagging of kids asking for mobile phones drives most parents to the edge of desperation.
It’s not just kids who are addicted to mobile phones now; adults, teens, and children spend hours on end on mobile devices too. As parents, we sometimes find it hard to restrict our own mobile phone usage and find ourselves reaching for our phones out of boredom. So, how do you find the balance? How can you balance allowing your kids time to play on mobile devices without letting it take over?
It’s important to remember that mobile devices aren’t all bad; they can be fun and educational. The American Association of Pediatricians used to recommend that kids only get two hours of screen time a day. Recently, they revised this advice, acknowledging that screen time can have educational benefits. They also stressed the importance of kids being physically active, not just exercising their thumbs.
How can parents help kids balance real life with mobile phone use? Here are some active ways to assist your child in controlling their mobile phone addiction:
Encourage physical activity: Ensure your kids are active frequently. Whether it’s running around, engaging in arts and crafts, or taking short jogs every half hour, encourage them to get up and move. Breaking their screen time helps prevent them from sitting for hours.
Prioritize responsibilities: Ensure homework, reading, or chores are completed before they use their mobile phones.
Establish and enforce rules: Simple rules, like good behavior and no arguments during the week to earn mobile phone privileges, help regulate usage. Turn off the mobile phone when their allocated time is up and stick to the rules.
Set clear limits: Give a five-minute warning before ending game sessions. If they exceed their time, deduct ten minutes from their next session.
No phones before bed: Avoid mobile usage before bedtime to ensure kids get adequate sleep and aren’t kept awake by artificial light.
Promote family time: Spend weekends on activities your kids enjoy, like playing with educational toys or swimming together. Family fun promotes healthy habits and shows there’s more to life than the digital world.
Encourage mobile-free time: Teach older kids the value of unplugging and experiencing life beyond their phones.
Engage in creative activities: Encourage arts & crafts, outdoor play, and pretend play to diversify their interests beyond screens.
By actively engaging with your children and setting clear boundaries, you can help them enjoy a balanced approach to using mobile devices while promoting their overall well-being.
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